Gone are the days when love was simply about connection. Now, it’s about what each person brings to the table. And let’s not pretend—it’s not just about love anymore.

? For Women: The relationship ROI often comes in the form of financial stability. Whether it’s through girlfriend allowances, all-expenses-paid vacations, or just the assurance that their man has "big provider energy," many women see relationships as an opportunity to level up their lifestyles. After all, why struggle alone when you can secure someone who will “take care” of you?

? For Men: The ROI is different but just as strategic. In a world where a man’s success is often measured by who he dates, relationships are an investment in image. A beautiful woman isn’t just a partner—she’s a status symbol. A submissive woman isn’t just a lover—she’s a sign that he’s in control. And let’s not forget the emotional labor men expect—therapy without the therapist fee, someone who listens, supports, and nurtures, all while looking like an Instagram model.

The silent agreement? Men provide, women enhance. Sounds fair—until you realize that once the ROI isn’t returning, people start looking elsewhere.

Are We in a Relationship or Just Trading?

Let’s call it what it is: dating is starting to feel like a business deal. Both sides will swear they just want something real—until reality doesn’t come with the lifestyle they imagined. 

The moment one person stops delivering their expected value, interest drops. And just like that, love turns into a failed investment.

Where Do We Go From Here?

Maybe love was never as pure as we thought. Maybe it’s always been about give and take, and we’re just finally being honest about it. Or maybe we’ve gone too far—so focused on what we can gain that we’ve forgotten what it means to truly connect.

But one thing is clear: relationships have changed. The game has new rules, and whether you play to win or refuse to participate, the question remains—are we in love, or just in business?