Random thoughts

Friend yes there is time and seasons but don't forget, time and chance happens to all.

A man came into the office and long after he was gone suddenly these words came.

It is never late for any man or woman, all it requires is a first step in the right direction to recover lost ground not necessarily lost years.

For example, a man at 40 who doesn't have a family yet, maybe he tried but relationships have not yet worked out for him and let's assume he is not literate by educational standards but a hardworking and dedicated artisan, how can he recover lost grounds?

Clean up your thought and strategy

First stop assuming time is passing you by. Yes time is passing but it will definitely pass you by if you keep at 'time is passing'. You did not create time and can never be in control of time.

Rather than assuming start rearranging your life pattern and strategy.

Using our case study, as he is working and earning, yes nigeria is hard nevertheless not hopeless and for his future certain sacrifices can be made. He can start by getting basic personal hygiene items to ensure hygiene. While saving up he won't have the luxury to get fanciful outfit but whatever he have should be properly washed and if possible ironed, consciously building an appearance should not leave his list of to do. Feeding should be rationed but proper, yes we eat to survive while doing that enure to mix the food intake to attain some level of balance diet weekly.

Improve interpersonal relationship and do away with bad characters and habits, conversations should be articulate, know when to be involved and at what point to stop and when not to be involved at all. 'Na so i be' should be buried. At the same time improving the skill and expanding areas of knowledge deficiencies.

Given a year or two, I believe his social standards will greatly improve and he can try again on family matters. However, for a man of 40 he shouldn't be looking to settle with an 'under age' save in rear case will a lady of 20 want to marry a man of 40. Get acquinted with ladies of seeming similar age say 30 to 40 as ladies at this age brackets have more understanding of what life is and can think at your level. If properly done, I trust he will be limitless in any future possibilities I might want to project.

Same for a lady is vise-vasa. In essence, as long as you are not counting time but focused on meeting an opportunity prepared, time and chance will happen and lost grounds can be recovered.

It is never and can never be late to enjoy family bliss. It might be delayed but not written off.